tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4401131345256439921.post402779837090014183..comments2023-10-22T04:04:10.931-04:00Comments on Bryan and Sarah's Adoption Story: The Path Less TraveledBryanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12690773006557423923noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4401131345256439921.post-85607670254689914102011-06-16T14:06:44.583-04:002011-06-16T14:06:44.583-04:00Well said, Sarah. I definitely can't empathize...Well said, Sarah. I definitely can't empathize with everything you're going through in the adoption process, but I do get the endless frustration of wanting something so badly that so many seem to accomplish without an ounce of thought (and without spending a dollar!). Struggling with fertility issues for nearly 2 years has definitely changed me as a person - I don't think I'll ever be able to have a "fertile mindset" - pregnancy announcements will always sting, and thoughtless comments will always drive me insane. *sigh* <br /><br />However, Steph is right - you ARE one day closer to your baby today than you were yesterday. Praying that you and Bryan get your placement SOON!!!JJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13927400109657416336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4401131345256439921.post-44879761297273799352011-06-16T09:02:37.636-04:002011-06-16T09:02:37.636-04:00I love you sis (and bro-in-law)! I can't wait ...I love you sis (and bro-in-law)! I can't wait to one day meet my niece or nephew - and that day will be beautiful. You guys are 2 of the strongest people I know, and I am so proud of your positive attitudes (even though you need an occasional venting session), strength, hope and love that you carry through this process. Make sure you lean on all your family and friends that are there for you through your journey, we all wish the very best for you both. Love you lots Bryan and Sarah!Stephanienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4401131345256439921.post-34639911401284153722011-06-15T23:22:16.311-04:002011-06-15T23:22:16.311-04:00Yes Sarah, you and Bryan WILL be awesome parents o...Yes Sarah, you and Bryan WILL be awesome parents one day, hopefully soon. I too cant wait to hear news of a match. I wish I could be back in my old spot to chat with you, even if for a few minutes throughout the week. Just know that you two are always in my prayers. Vent on my dear!!!<br /><br />Love & Blessings, <br />TeresaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4401131345256439921.post-34472970114958934582011-06-15T19:47:55.717-04:002011-06-15T19:47:55.717-04:00I can only imagine how much of an emotional roller...I can only imagine how much of an emotional rollercoaster the adoption process is. The constant reminders you describe are some things that I never thought about. I'm surprised that there are such a lack of books. Ever consider writing one about your experience? Ever think about creating an online newsletter for those people who are waiting and going through the process? You are correct that TV/movies do a poor job of depicting positive images of people wanting to adopt or the adopted children. Both are often portrayed as whacked out people who are probably in need of institutionalization. (is that even a word?) I know you &Brian will be fantastic parents and I can't wait to hear the news that you've brought home your highly anticipated bundle of joy! There will be many ups and some downs through the process, but it's ok to vent. I am honored to be able to share in your journey through your blog. Hope you know you have a willing ear if you're having a particularly rough moment. :-)arriennehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12018923095886311889noreply@blogger.com